I over think a lot. It’s strange, a question can be as simple as: Do you want to talk about it? But first you think — do I? I mean do I really want to talk right now. All about my problems or whatever.
So then if yes, next you think — but do you want to talk about it? I want to but are you going to be here for me till I am over this issue? Are you going to actually find out whats wrong? Or are you just trying to be logical or nice or something. If it were logic, I guess the logical thing to do would be to ask if they do want to talk. But do they and will you do the next logical thing, and stay with them and keep asking if they’re ok or just comfort them?
I like to wonder if girlfriends are good for this. Most of the time on my holidays it would be nicer to have a female to be there with you. Females are great. But will the right one comfort you? You need to know that to have a good relationship. Its best to be good friends with your significant one, then girlfriend or boyfriend, then married. It works other ways but most of the time that works. Or you get friendzoned.
January 2014